Potage Magali - Mediterranean Tomato Soup with Rice a la Julia Child

The soup base
3/4 cup thinly sliced leeks and onions or onions only

3 Tb olive oil

1 1/2 lbs. fresh, ripe, red tomatoes

4 large cloves garlic, minced or mashed

4-5 cups liquid: light chicken stock, or canned broth and water

1/4 cup plain, raw, white rice

Bouquet in cheesecloth:

6 parsley springs, 1 bay leaf 1/4 tsp thyme, 4 fennel seeds, 6 large fresh basil leaves

A large pinch of saffron threads salt and pepper

In a 3 quart stainless or enamel saucepan, cook the leeks and onions slowly in the oil to tender. Meanwhile, peel and halve the tomatoes, squeeze out seeds and reserve juice. Chop tomato pulp roughly and stir into the cooked leeks/onions. Add the garlic and stir over moderate heat for 3 minutes. Then add the tomato juice and liquid, bring to a boil and sprinkle in the rice. Add herbs and saffron; season to taste with salt and pepper. Simmer, partially covered, for 30 minutes.

Finish

Carefully taste for seasoning, adding pinches of sugar to bring up flavor and counteract acidity, and small amounts of tomato paste if needed for color and taste. Remove herb bouquet.

To serve

Serve hot or chilled and sprinkle with minced fresh basil, chervil or parsley.

Recipe courtesy of Mastering the Art of French Cooking Volume Two, Julia Child/Simone Beck. On Barnes and Noble or Amazon.

Finally, a plug for Mrs. Child, I'd prefer not to live without MAF/I & II, so, I highly recommend the investment in cash and time. She provides brilliance. And my family waits for her Zucchini Tian (VII). 

Good question: What do we teach about money?

My friend Kerry asked a great question on her blog, mnyoungones.blogspot.com,  "How are you teaching your kids about money?"
I have to say I am grateful for what I was taught and subsequently learned about money. The foundation my mom and dad laid, has made course correction easier than tough, even when I've had big course corrections to make. I must have been 5 or 6 when my dad sat me down at the kitchen table to explain my allowance structure:

• 50 cents a week
• 10 cents for savings
• 25 cents for church
• 15 cents spending 

If I saved my spending money to a certain point, he'd double it. It worked for a long time. Then, when I got into the working world, my dad was the first one to remind me of the principles: Give to God and pay yourself first (10% each), then live on what's left. Actually, it was Mom who provided the awesome example of living within one's means*. It stuck. It wasn't always easy or even possible but it provided a reasonable and workable guideline. I have savings. So with our kids, we've done an updated version:

• You're paid your age, twice a month. 
• You give 10%, 
• You save 10% 
• and the rest...well, you can imagine the shopping and saving up that goes on. 

Occasionally, but not often, we'll buy extras. For the most part, wants come out of saved allowance (as opposed to savings). We provide clothes and shoes, of course, most of what they need, but when a need is really a want, it's on the individual to save. (This helps immensely with a shoe-lover inhabiting one of our bedrooms and I haven't bought a video game in years.) 

There's one more stipulation, if you're going shopping, we usually apply the 3-day waiting rule. I'd much rather drive back to that store to get what you're fairly certain you want, than watch you pitch it or give it away when you realize it was a whim. There's been growth for me here too. My daughter asked me once, while strolling through the French Market we call Target, why I didn't have a 3-day waiting rule. Yikes! Hoisted on my own petard! She was right. Why not give time for the cooling of shopper's infatuation? It's served me well. Usually. 

We don't put allowance on the line as a consequence for bad behavior. Everyone has house responsibilities. Everyone has to pitch in. So just like in the real world, you get paid if you do your work. But, if you are industrious, if you find and do extras, you're in a position to earn bonuses.

All of it has evolved. They started with colored envelopes in their drawer. Now, they have wallets and jars. It's working so far. But just last night my eldest, a thirteen year old, asked if he could get a job. He wants to go paintballing with friends and that's a pricey extra. I hear a lawn mower in the distance.

So, what do you know? What do you teach about money?

*Mom did this with grace. I have to say, my dad taught me tons, by not living by the rules he administered. I learned much from his mistakes.

I Love:: 28 and Quotable Sunday

"You don't have a soul. You are a soul. You have a body."
—C. S. Lewis

and I Love:: a quiet Sunday where I'm a little alone, a little not and knowing that very soon, all my people will reappear to "set the week," play a board game or two, find a giggle and a story.

Oh! I also love this wonderful month of I Love::. Thanks to Kerry, Mary and all the writing gals whose words crossed over and into my life. I look forward to more.